Mediation Information & Assessment Meetings (MIAMs)

No. A MIAM is only required before the first mediation session. Its purpose is to assess whether mediation is appropriate and to provide information about the process. If mediation proceeds, the following sessions will focus directly on resolving the issues in dispute. In some cases, mediation is not suitable, particularly if there are serious concerns about safety or communication breakdowns that make mediation unworkable. The mediator will assess this during the MIAM.

A MIAM typically lasts between 45 minutes and an hour. During this time, the mediator will:

• Explain how mediation works and what to expect.
• Assess whether mediation is appropriate for the case.
• Answer any questions or concerns.

The session is designed to be informative and impartial, ensuring that each person understands their options before deciding whether to proceed with mediation.

No. An MIAM is an assessment meeting to decide if mediation is suitable. Mediation sessions happen afterwards if both parties agree to proceed.

The cost varies depending on the provider but MIAMs are generally more affordable than taking a case to court. Fees is £150 per person. For those on a low income, legal aid may cover the cost of the MIAM, making it free. If one party qualifies for legal aid, the other may also be able to attend at no cost.

Yes. Many mediation services offer online MIAM appointments via video call. This allows people to attend remotely if they:

• Live far from the mediation service.
• Have mobility issues.
• Prefer the convenience of an online session.

Remote MIAMs follow the same format as in-person meetings and are just as effective.

No. Each person attends their MIAM separately. This ensures:

• Each party has an opportunity to express their concerns privately.
• The mediator can assess the situation without external pressure.
• Each individual fully understands their options before moving forward.

After both MIAMs are completed, the mediator will confirm whether mediation can proceed.

If one person refuses to attend, the other can still complete their MIAM and obtain a MIAM certificate. This certificate is required to apply to court for child arrangements, financial disputes or other family matters. A refusal to attend without a valid reason may reflect poorly if the case proceeds to court. Judges often expect both parties to have explored mediation first, unless an exemption applies.

 It’s proof that you attended a MIAM, allowing you to make a court application. Certificates are issued only by mediators accredited by the Family Mediation Council.

The mediator will assess whether mediation is appropriate based on several factors, including:

• The nature and complexity of the dispute.
• Whether both parties are willing to engage in mediation.
• Any safeguarding concerns that may prevent fair discussions.

Mediation is often effective for resolving disputes amicably but in some cases—such as where there is a history of domestic abuse or severe conflict—it may not be appropriate.

Yes. Everything discussed in a MIAM is confidential, except in situations where the mediator has a legal duty to report concerns, such as:

• Risk of harm to a child or vulnerable adult.
• Financial misconduct (such as fraud or hidden assets).

Confidentiality allows individuals to speak openly without fear of information being shared outside the mediation process.

 Yes, in most cases. Family court requires parties to attend an MIAM before applying. Exemptions apply in cases of domestic abuse or urgent safeguarding.